Boomers, Seniors, Retirees: Need to Replace Income Lost In Recession? Have You Discovered How to Get “Linked In” to the Social Networking Sites to Assist In Your Job Search?
Does the Recession Find You with a Decimated 401(K), Your Savings Tanked and – Worse – Forced to Look for Work?
If so, you’re not alone. That’s what happened to one of my daughter’s co-workers, a guy we’ll call “Ron.” Perhaps you’ve known someone like Ron, or had a “Ron” at your office, too. If so, he’d be the guy who’s famous for taking penny-pinching to the “nth degree.”
According to my daughter, Ron scrimped and saved his whole life, building up a huge stock portfolio – with the intent of leaving his former college and several charities major endowments on his death.
She tells me Ron was the epitome of financial prudence. While she’s no slouch when it comes to being economical, she says this guy could one-up anyone when it came to scrimping and saving.
For example, he:
- Rode a bicycle to work
- Always ate lunch at his desk – PB&J’s and an apple – every day
- Never went out for after work drinks with co-workers or ate dinner at nice restaurants
Beyond that, Ron:
- Lived in a tiny house he inherited from his grandmother
- Spent his vacations doing home improvement projects
- Mowed his own lawn, and used a push mower to boot. (“Good exercise and saves the environment,” Ron said.)
- Never bought clothes unless he had to — and only then on sale
- Didn’t have a TV, so no pricey cable bill, either
- Read a lot of books, but never bought them. He was a great patron of his local library
- Excelled at coupon-clipping…
Yes, Ron was well-paid, and he was a saver. He had big plans for his nest egg, too. But there’s a sad ending to his story:
- In order to get the most return for his money, it seems Ron invested all of his personal savings into the stock market
- And lost it all this past year
- The mental distress these losses caused him was so great Ron began verbally abusing his co-workers
- And eventually became so disruptive his supervisors dismissed him
- To add insult to injury, the firm’s 401(K) hasn’t performed well recently. So Ron doesn’t have much to show there either, due to the timing of his separation from the company. He’s pretty much left to rely on his Social Security and whatever severance pay he might have received.
- The only ray of hope I see is that knowing how scrappy Ron is, I am hopeful he can get back on his feet again soon…
Wow! What a tale of woe. Hopefully, your personal losses aren’t as huge as Ron’s.
But regardless, you know that because of this economic downturn, many Boomers, seniors and retirees suddenly find themselves faced with an unanticipated need for funds. Unless you feel up to starting your own business, this means you need to figure out how to return to the workforce…
It’s time for a job search. And though that may be daunting, especially given your concerns over ageism, the good news is that we’ll end this post by discussing some new social networking tools that are guaranteed to help you succeed. Which is a really good thing. After all, you’re concerned that:
- You’re searching for work during a time when global unemployment is on the rise
- You’re up against gigantic odds – especially if you’re factoring in any potential for age discrimination and technological shortcomings
- Not to mention your concerns over generational conflict in the workplace. (You know, hostility you may face because younger workers believe that older workers who refuse to retire are grabbing jobs that should have gone to them – or even to new college grads…)
Don’t Despair. There Is Some Good News. First Off, Boomers and Seniors Actually Have Some Support in the Human Resources Department
Based on experience, HR people – whose job is to make the best hiring decisions possible – know that workers in the plus-50 age range are:
- Generally more conscientious and harder working than younger workers
- Less likely to take sick leave; even more unlikely to require maternity leave
- Usually more perceptive, emotionally stable and motivated
- Just as capable of learning (which means that a bit of training will negate any concerns related to technological challenges)
- More capable of evaluating decisions, due to experience
- Much less prone to making rash/”off-the-cuff” decisions which have to be overturned later
- Often willing to sacrifice earnings in favor of a pleasant work environment and/or the gratification that comes from making the world a better/safer/kinder place
- Steady workers, not overly interested in climbing the career ladder at this point in their lives
Secondly, There Are Some Bright Spots On the Job Search Horizon
Steve Pogorzelsko, former president of Monster North America, the company which runs the employment site Monster.com, says the country is already experiencing a shortage of workers in some areas. Particularly:
- Health-care workers
- Car mechanics
So if your talents fall into those areas, you’re much more likely to find organizations anxiously looking to hire you.
Beyond that, if you’re reading this in the United States, President Obama’s Stimulus Plan is also about to start generating jobs. Monster.com has just published a useful job search list for those positions. Apparently, in addition to jobs in construction and the trades, there will be jobs created in dozens of other fields, including:
- And even in “softer” areas, like travel, tourism and hospitality…
Third, You Can’t Ignore the Generational Tension Created By the Tug-of-War Over Who Gets Today’s Jobs – But You Might Be Able to Use It to Your Advantage
Ellen Goodman, columnist for The Boston Globe just wrote a very interesting piece on generational conflict and how the recession is sending mixed messages to older Americans seeking employment. Her piece begins:
“Let me see if I have this right:
Older Americans ought to keep working in order to lighten the burden of Social Security and assorted benefits on younger generations.
Older Americans ought to retire in order to make room for younger generations with their noses pressed to the closed window of the job market...”
A few paragraphs later she says:
“… But if the downturn comes with the seeds of generational conflict over jobs, it also carries packets of social change. There is a chance for the boomer generation to make a virtue – or a revolution – out of the necessity of working longer.
We already know that a growing corps of people in their 50s and 60s are more interested in renewal than retirement. Marc Freedman of Civic Ventures talks about “encore careers” for those who want to leave their midlife jobs and move into work with social value.
Now, he says hopefully, “The one benefit of this economic crisis is to drive home the reality that longer working lives are going to be necessary and desirable. If we can give people a sense that contributing longer is not another set of years at the grindstone but an opportunity to do something they can feel proud of, we’ll have accomplished something significant…”
Speaking of Social Change, Renewal – And Working Toward Significant Accomplishment: Why Not Start Using Some of the New Social Networking Tools to Enhance Your Reach, Increase the Opportunity for Job Search Success?
Of course you already know to use traditional social networking.
It’s as natural to you as breathing, right? As soon as you decided it was time to pull out your resume and start updating it, you no doubt started your networking campaign, letting your contacts know that you’re looking for work, so that they can assist you with your search. That network includes your:
- Former employers
- Former co-workers
- Former classmates
But Did You Know That You Can Reach a Lot More of Your Resources – Faster – Using the Outreach Techniques Offered By Some of the New Social Network Websites?
Currently, the three best job search-related resources are Twitter, FaceBook and LinkedIn. Additionally, you can create a blog, and blog about your expertise and things you feel passionate about. This will also lead you to previously unanticipated income opportunities.
So let’s talk a bit about those three sites: If you haven’t previously used them, don’t hesitate to jump online and take a look. As you get to know and understand them, you’ll see that while they’re similar in some ways, each has each has a unique role to play in your job search efforts.
Though they are all focused on social networking, it might help you to think of them in terms of your more traditional social networking experiences. You know, sort of like this:
- Twitter = A connection you make at a cocktail party.
- FaceBook = A conversation you have in the hallway at work. Potentially a casual connection, but still potent…
- LinkedIn = A traditional business meeting. When you’re using LinkedIn, you’ll want to (figuratively) wear your best suit, carry your business cards – and shine your shoes.
Got it? Then let’s talk some more about how you can use LinkedIn:
You Need to Use LinkedIn As Your Professional Networking Site, Where You’ll Post Your Work Experience, and Start Connecting with People Professionally.
Currently LinkedIn.com boasts over 35 million professional users and focuses on a business demographic. It operates with three levels of separation. You can connect to people you know directly, as well as people you might be able to connect with on a secondary and tertiary level.
You can also connect your blog to it, once you’ve got one set up, and send your tweets there, too. (Tweets are the comments you make from your Twitter account.)
Once You set up your LinkedIn connections you’ll suddenly find yourself connected to millions of people. As for current users of LinkedIn, here’s the demographics:
- Average Age – 41
- Average Years of Experience – 15
- Average Household Income – $109,000
- 46% of its users are Decision Makers
- Includes profiles of executives from all of the Fortune 500 firms
After you’ve joined and set up your profile, dig into the LinkedIn platform to find and join “groups” of people with common interests or backgrounds.
It’s easy to find existing groups. Here’s how:
- First, log in to your LinkedIn account
- Next look for and click on “Groups” in the left hand navigation bar
- When you do that, you’ll see a new screen, where “Groups Directory” and “Create a Group” options show up in a box in the upper right hand corner.
If you click on “Groups Directory, ” you can do a comprehensive search for existing LinkedIn groups related your current affiliations, including:
- Your Alma Mater – For example, mine – the University of Wisconsin-Madison – has an alumni group which I joined. So do Cornell, U of Michigan, Northwestern, CalTech, UCLA, UC-Berkeley, etc. Likely your school does too, as there are thousands of college alumni groups listed. If you school is not there, you can start one by clicking on the “Create a Group” tab.
- National or Local Civic Groups – I joined a group of Chi Omega Alumni, my national collegiate social fraternity.
- Non-profits or Charity groups – There are literally hundreds of groups here, including Christian Professionals, World Wildlife Fund, Ubuntu Users, American Heart Association, YMCA. No doubt one you’re affiliated with already exists and is happy to network with you…
- Professional Organizations – There are over 62,000 professional organizations represented in LinkedIn. Everything from Automotive Aftermarket to Republican Professionals, to the World Tourism Network. As a marketing and PR professional , I joined the PRSA (Public Relations Society of America) Counselor’s Academy group.
- “Employer Alumni” Groups – These are active groups of former employees interested in networking, and there are thousnds of them listed. I found HP Alumni, Milwaukee Journal Sentinel IT Dept alums, and something like 64 different flavors of AT&T/Bell Labs alums. Not to mention GE, IBM, Oracle. It’s a long list…
- Special Interest Groups – I joined Baby Boomer Marketing Group, Marketing & PR Innovators, ProMarketers, and Relationship Marketing 101. What are your special interests?
- Groups for Your Ideal Target Market – I found Encore Entrepreneurs, Boomer Nation…
- Conference Groups – If you ever attended a major conference, like TED, Black Hat Briefings, Dallas TechFest or Defcon, you’ll be delighted to know there are over 4,000 LinkedIn groups related to conference attendees.
Being a group member allows you to see other group members and to reach out and build relationships. It’s sort of like your local Rotary Club on steroids…
No doubt you’ll want to search for groups for your areas of professional expertise, as well as within the areas where your best referral sources participate. Not to mention groups related to the sources of your best clients.
There’s More to Successfully Marketing Your Skills Via LinkedIn, Of Course:
For example, you can do some advanced searching in the “People” tab at the top of every LinkedIn. It allows you to find like-minded people and see where they are affiliated – both online and offline. This means that you can discover what groups your connections belong to and “Join” them as well. Which is a great way to position yourself as an expert in the appropriate communities. Something you want to do when your in job hunting mode. It allows you to showcase your expertise, becoming the “Go To” professional in those groups.
If your curiosity is piqued and you want to know even more about how to leverage LinkedIn here are a handful of recommended books, all handily available at Amazon.com, which will help you better use LinkedIn to succeed in your job search:
- 42 Rules for 24-Hour Success on LinkedIn: Practical Ideas to Help You Quickly Achieve Your Desired Business Success by Chris Muccio, with David Burns & Peggy Murrah
- The LinkedIn Personal Trainer by Steven Tylock
- I’m on LinkedIn–Now What???: A Guide to Getting the Most Out of LinkedIn by Jason Alba
- Social Media is a Cocktail Party: Why You Already Know the Rules of Social Media Marketing by Jim Tobin and Lisa Braziel
- Social Media Marketing: An Hour a Day by Dave Evans and Susan Bratton
In closing, if you’d like to take a look at my LinkedIn account as an example of how to set yours up, go to Anne’s LinkedIn page.
And if you’d like to connect there, just send me an invitation, noting that “BoomerLifestyle” is how we know each other.
Finally, if you’re still feeling mystified by social networking, but would like some coaching on how to use it, drop me an email, giving your name, email address, phone number, particular challenge, and best time to call. I promise to get right back to you so we can discuss how I can best help you.
Single and Lonely? Ready to Re-Enter the Dating Pool But Worried It’ll Be a Shock? Why Not Let Rhonda the Maven Show You How to Start Dating Again?
Note from Anne:
As you are no doubt aware, every day, thousands of Baby Boomers suddenly wake up to find themselves single, and – unfortunately – feeling like you’re totally out of touch with the dating scene.
To help you start dating again, so that you can rediscover the joys of a full social life, I’ve asked an expert, Rhonda Cort, a.k.a. “Rhonda the Maven,” to write this guest post on how to re-enter the dating pool. Whether you just want to dip your toe into the social scene, or you’re ready to dive in – total immersion-style – she’s got the experience to help assure your water wings are working and your dive won’t end with an unpleasant “belly flop…”
Rhonda’s an entrepreneur who’s been lucky enough to have spent the last 10+ years, living, working – and dating – internationally.
In true entrepreneurial fashion – as in “find a need and fill it” – she’s turned her knowledge and experience into a business, becoming a mentor and speaker whose expertise is helping fabulous women (and some very special men) not only start dating again, but actually make quantum leaps on the social scene.
Rhonda know how to take your personal life from “fizzle” to “SIZZLE” –
As she puts it:
- “I have been living a juicy life in various countries around the world (Italy and Sweden are two of my favorites).”
- “This time has been full of nothing but memorable moments enjoying fantastic relationships and dating great men of various nationalities, races and cultural backgrounds.”
- “As a result, my passion and mission are to help you become magnetically attractive to the quality men and women YOU want to date within 90 days.”
- “In fact, if you are as motivated as some of my clients have been, this could happen within just weeks — not months or years!”
Clearly Rhonda has a unique point of view and a reservoir of wisdom that helps her connect with her clients on many levels. So take it away, Rhonda!
How to Re-enter the Dating Pool — Without Shock
By Rhonda the Maven
The good thing about dating in your midlife is that you are clear (or should be) on what you want, what you like and who you are. There is a silent strength and poise about you that the 20-somethings and 30-somethings secretly envy. Don’t ask ’em though–they’d never admit it.
However, you have probably been out of the dating pool for some time-maybe just a few years for some and perhaps decades for others. With all the life experience you have, nothing can prepare you for re-entering the pool and taking that first swim.
So whether you want to dip your toe or dive in all at once, there are a few things I’d like to share with you – I want your first swim to be in water that is warm, comfy and inviting.
I’ve been in the dating pool, off and on, for the last few years myself. I understand it can be pretty intimidating, especially if all you’ve heard are disaster stories one after the other. However, you should try to be objective. How will you find a new friend or that special new companion if you don’t get in the pool-online or off? I know…I know you’re concerned about your safety, but once you have the know-how there is no need to worry.
Let me help you avoid the ‘cold water’ shock and the struggle so many Baby Boomers experience when it comes to testing the dating waters again. Remember, you should take time to prepare yourself BEFORE you take that dive or dip your toes in the pool.
Don’t waste time swimming in circles! Hurry go get a pen and paper. Jot down the 2 vital points I’m about to reveal. They will literally determine if your love life sinks or swims!
1. Get help.
This is of vital importance as it’s infinitely harder to reach goals solo. There will be days when you need encouragement. So get a like-minded positive friend to help you or a personal mentor. Your success rate can only SKYROCKET when you do so.
Here are some things a great mentor will help you address:
- Getting crystal clear about what you want and what you don’t want.
- Overcoming obstacles or issues that stand in the way of your success.
- Putting together a step-by-step action plan based on your comfort zone.
- Inspiring you, keeping you on track and lifting you up when you are low.
- Providing wisdom to help you get the best out of your dating experience and help you avoid unnecessary pitfalls.
2. As you start dating again, your dating, love or friendship action-plan should be S.M.A.R.T.
- Specific. You need to specifically and clearly state what you want. Why? Because until you do that, the people you attract will be random and not at all what you want.
- Measurable. You need to know when you’ve reached your love life goals. You could have a goal to just go out on one great date every 2 weeks or to meet a wonderful new companion within 6 months or so. It’s okay to set measurable goals; they motivate you to take action.
- Action-oriented. This is where most people fall short. Don’t be one of them. If you want to go out on wonderful dates…you’ve got to DO something to attract them. So you need to figure out what that is, how you’re going to do it and when.
- Realistic. You have a dream or desire you want to achieve, right? Well it’s great to push outside your comfort zone, but at the same time they need to be reachable. Otherwise, you set yourself up for disappointment.
- Timely. Are these desires you have in sync with your current needs in life? Only when you feel it’s time to achieve them and you truly want them, will you do whatever it takes to obtain them.
This information has saved people I’ve worked with from wasting precious time with incompatible people, timewasters and bad dates! Following these two points will greatly increase your chances of finding a wonderful new partner or friend who suits you in less time. It may sound a bit technical, but nothing beats a little preparation.
I would love to hear your feedback and any questions you may have. Write me at: RhondaTheMaven @ gmail.com
Wishing you a warm dive… or a pleasant dip!
Rhonda the Maven
P.S. If you are serious about successfully getting back in the dating pool to find a friend or a loving partner, I have something very special, just for you…
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You Can’t Do Much About the Economy, But That’s No Cause For a Midlife Crisis. Quick! What Would It Take To Make You Truly Blissful Right Now? As in “Happy From the Inside Out?”
As you were growing up, how did you envision your adult life?
Unfortunately, if you’re like most people, your childhood vision for your adult life doesn’t at all match up to the life you’re currently experiencing – quite possibly due to the recession.
After benefiting from all the high-flying financial success Boomers enjoyed during the 80s and 90s, who would have ever dreamed you might find yourself today, 50+ and facing a midlife crisis because you suddenly – and unexpectedly – find yourself:
- Financially challenged – OK, let’s really lay it out there: too broke to be able to contemplate near-term retirement
- Fighting foreclosure and on the verge of homelessness
- Scrambling to have a reliable job and affordable health insurance
- Worried that no one loves you – and getting by without a sex life, too
- Dogged by chronic illnesses including arthritis, osteoporosis, fibromyalgia, type 2 diabetes, depression, sleep disorders, metabolic syndrome, cardiovascular disease and cancer
- Feeling totally alone in the world
That’s certainly not the dream life you were counting on!
After all, when you dreamed of your future back in the day, you undoubtedly pictured yourself enjoying a delightful, robust and well-to-do standard of living; your vision perhaps fueled by the happy lifestyles portrayed in just about every laugh-track laden sit-com we watched on TV as we grew up.
Certainly that’s how Marcy Shimoff, once a self-described angst-filled “unhappy camper,” envisioned her future life back as a young teen in the early 1970s…
She says she always imagined that as an adult she would undoubtedly:
- Live in a beautiful house
- Have a wonderful husband
- Enjoy a great career
- Be proud of her perfect body
- Delight in a social life that was fun and exciting
- Luxuriate in the fact that she was totally HAPPY!
To be sure, Marci adds, she was realistic enough to know that she:
- Would have to work hard to get all her ducks in a row
- Didn’t have any idea how she was going to achieve this fantastic life
- Was currently filled with existential angst, and not a naturally happy person
- Had a personal goal to become a professional speaker, striding the stages of the world, inspiring people to change their lives for the better
Now Let’s Digress For a Moment:
Think about it: If Marci’s fantasies are similar to yours, and given the current state of the economy, it’s no wonder that Rhea Becker, the Boston-based author of The Boomer Chronicles has recently been writing post after post dealing with that ubiquitous rite of passage known as “midlife crisis.”
Just in case you may have been wondering whether or not you have or are experiencing one, she offers a handy crisis checklist. According to Rhea:
You Might Be Having a Midlife Crisis if You Are:
- No longer content with a life and/or lifestyle that may have provided you happiness for many years
- Bored with things/people that have previously held great interest
- Feeling adventurous – experiencing a desire to do something completely different
- Frustrated and questioning the meaning of life, and the validity of decisions you made clearly and easily in past years
- Confused about who you are or where your life is going
Hold On! Are Those Challenged Feelings You’re Currently Experiencing Truly Caused by a Crisis of Midlife?
Perhaps You Just Need to Turn Off the News and Give Yourself the Opportunity to Be Happy?
Realistically, everyone who reads or watches today’s news programs – with their incessant stories of crisis, war and economic meltdown – is living under a cloud of doom, trying to figure out how to deal with the current economy and its negative impact on your personal finances.
Which is why it is so fantastic that Marci Shimoff – yes the same Marci who was once an angst-filled and brooding teen – has just released the paperback version of her fantastic and transformational book, Happy for No Reason: 7 Steps to Being Happy from the Inside Out, which was originally published in hard cover format a year ago.
Thankfully for Boomers Everywhere, Marci Got Her Act Together. She’s a Happy Camper These Days – And She Knows You Can Be As Well.
You don’t need to hold out for:
- A fulfilling career
- A big bank account
- Your perfect mate
Marci’s book, Happy for No Reason, brings you a breakthrough approach to being happy, one that doesn’t depend on achievements, goals, money, relationships, or anything else “out there.” No, she proves that true happiness must come from inside you…
- Most books on happiness tell you to find the things that make you happy and do them more often. There’s nothing wrong with that, but if you’ve tried it, you’ve probably figured that this can lead to addictive behaviors, and worse — it won’t give you the deep and lasting happiness you’re undoubtedly longing for — the kind you’ll never lose, no matter what happens in your life.
- Marci’s book includes interviews with 100 people she calls her “Happy 100” – people she’s identified as people who are truly happy.
- But beyond that, she’s interviewed a handful of leading experts in the fields of positive psychology and neurophysiology, giving the book a great blend of science AND personal stories.
- The result is a powerful, proven and life-changing 7-step program that incorporates all areas of your life.
- Personal power
Follow Marci’s 7 Step Program and you’ll become happier immediately — no matter where you are now, even if you’re unexpectedly finding yourself at the personal nadir. You know, you suddenly and unexpectedly find yourself feeling “50, broke and single.”
Now You Can Own a Paperback Copy of Happy for No Reason For a Mere $8.25, Instead of the $24.95 I Paid For MY Hard Cover Version! What Could Be More Fair and Fiscally Responsible Than That?!
Oh! Maybe You’d Like the Offer Sweetened with Presents? (You Know, Gifts with Purchase…)
That’s right, once you take action and order the book, there’s an extra reward: you can snag a boatload – as in more than $3,000 worth – of fantastic free gifts as a thank you for your highly intelligent purchase of this fantastic book.
Marci starts with a free audio course you can download, including these recordings and study guides:
“Happiness: From the Blues to Bliss” recording with Marci and award-winning actress, Mariel Hemingway.
“2009 Happy for No Reason Coaching Manual” plus free live group coaching session with Marci over the telephone.
“Eliminate the #1 Belief that Blocks Your Happiness” online session by Morty Lefkoe.
“The Passion Test” online session with personalized results to help you discover and live your passions.
“HeartMath De-Stress Kit” — a 15-page guide with helpful practices to manage stress during challenging times.
“Turn Happiness into Money” recording by Marci and CNBC wealth expert Phil Town
“Feng Shui for Happiness & Prosperity” recording by Feng Shui Master Marie Diamond
“Happiness Meditation” with Spring Forest Qigong Master Chunyi Lin
Not only that, but the link allows you to download more than $3000 worth of valuable additional gifts and bonus recordings from almost 200 top authors and thought leaders, who have come together to give you a wonderful, happiness-filled life of abundance and peace.
These authors include:
- Jack Canfield
- John Gray
- Marianne Williamson
- Deepak Chopra
- Dr. Joe Vitale
- Bob Proctor
- Bill Bartman
- Maria Carter
- Dr. Joe Rubino
- even celebs like Shirley MacLaine, Yakov Smirnoff and Richard Simmons!
Now That You Can Save Money While Learning to Be Happy, Don’t Just Take My Word That This Fabulous Book Can Change Your Life
Here are some quotes from other people whose names you may recognize:
- “With Happy for No Reason, Marci Shimoff has hit a home run. This book presents a definitive, broad-based approach to becoming truly happy that combines great spiritual depth, top-notch research, and psychological practicality. I’m certain that if you follow the practices in her dazzling new book, you too will manifest a lifetime of happiness.” — from the Foreword by Jack Canfield, author of The Success Principles and co-creator of the bestselling Chicken Soup for the Soul series
- “You can’t depend on external circumstances for lasting happiness. It has to come from inside you. Based on scientific research and the experiences of truly happy people, Happy for No Reason shows you step-by-step how to raise your happiness set-point.” — Mehmet C. Oz, MD, coauthor of You: On a Diet and You: Staying Young
- “Marci Shimoff is one of the most compelling people I’ve ever known. I’m happy she’s shared her wisdom with all of us in Happy for No Reason.” — Marianne Williamson, #1 New York Times bestselling author of A Return to Love
- “Happy for No Reason offers seven clear, powerful, and effective steps you can practice to be happier right now!” — John Gray, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
- “This book is a wonderful collection of techniques and examples, shared by people who have had one of the most important realizations I think we can have — that we already have within us the ability to live in a state of Happy for No Reason.” — Lindsay Wagner, Emmy Award-winning actress, The Bionic Woman
- “Tremendous! Marci Shimoff has produced a book that is practical, inspiring, and accessible. Happy for No Reason gives readers powerful ways to become happier in all dimensions of life: body, mind, heart, soul, personal power, purpose, and relationships. It’s seven books holistically rolled into one.” — Stephen M. R. Covey, bestselling author of The Speed of Trust: The One Thing That Changes Everything
Still here? What are you waiting for? Your chance to achieve true Boomer Bliss awaits, don’t miss the boat! Click the link to order Happy for No Reason now, and comment to this post that you’ve ordered the book. I’ll reply with the link to where you can register for all the free goodies!
Bucket List Game Reminds Us That THIS Is the Year You Can Achieve Anything You Want: You Haven’t Let The Recession Keep You From Writing Up Your New Goals List, Have You?
Bucket lists are big news these days and we’ve talked about them before, of course. But here’s one that begs to be shared with you. This time, instead of you coming up with your own personal list, you get to share your experiences with others. Think of this as an opportunity to get to know your friends better.
Here’s how it works: Review all 100 items on the bucket list below and bold the ones you’ve already achieved – though undoubtedly you’ll feel that some of them are more like experiences than they are true lifetime achievements. Still, it’s fun to see how many you can check off!
Below — with brief annotations — is my bucket list. Thanks, to Rhea at “The Boomer Chronicles,” for sharing and getting us started. Feel free to share your results via a comment to the blog. I promise to comment back to each and every one!
Once you get done reading the list and contemplating how you would answer each point, it’s time for the real work to begin. That’s right – it’s time to develop your plan for what you want to personally achieve this year! After all, if you’re going to leave a legacy, it’s time to start! Here’s the bucket list:
1. Started my own blog
2. Slept under the stars – while on a horseback pack trip. It was phenomenal
3. Played in a band
4. Visited Hawaii – no, but I’ve been to Alaska!
5. Watched a meteor shower
6. Given more than I can afford to charity – how could that be possible? The more you give, the more blessed you become…
7. Been to Disneyland/Disneyworld
8. Climbed a mountain
9. Held a praying mantis
10. Sung a solo
11. Bungee jumped
12. Visited Paris
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea
14. Taught myself an art from scratch – first there was macrame, then crochet and tie-dye. Hey, it was the 60s!
15. Adopted a child
16. Had food poisoning – no but I have experienced being seasick during a storm at sea. They might be analogous, not sure…
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty – no but I’ve walked DOWN from the top of the Washington Monument and the Gateway Arch…
18. Grown my own vegetables – that was during my “Earth Mother” days, but I am seriously looking into doing it again this year…
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France
20. Slept on an overnight train
21. Had a pillow fight
22. Hitchhiked – my mother told me not to, but I did. Thankfully I’ve never revealed this to her… Guess she’ll know now
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill – what parent hasn’t been forced to take a sick day to care for a child?
24. Built a snow fort – oh and it was a dandy!
25. Held a lamb – no but my grandma took a shot of me as a toddler, holding a squirrel as I sat in my sandbox. My mother was petrified when she saw it
26. Gone skinny dipping – in Lake Mendota, at midnight, on a sultry June 21 – the longest day – after drinking a bottle of Boone’s Farm apple wine. Ahh, those UW college days…
27. Run a marathon
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice
29. Seen a total eclipse – well, you can’t watch it DIRECTLY…
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset – both are worth waiting for…
31. Hit a home run – I’m a leftie batter and THAT experience was amazing!
32. Been on a cruise
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
34. Visited the birthplace of my ancestors
35. Seen an Amish community
36. Taught myself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied – for one brief shining moment…and then it was gone in a flash!
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
39. Gone rock climbing
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David
41. Sung karaoke – but not as a solo performance…
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant
44. Visited Africa – no but it’s on my wish list, along with Antarctica
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight
46. Been transported in an ambulance
47. Had my portrait painted
48. Gone deep sea fishing
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling – I was there with others who did, but I couldn’t get over the concept of spitting into my mask…
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Been in a movie – no, but I’ve performed live onstage in front of an audience who paid to be in attendance…
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Visited Russia
60. Served at a soup kitchen
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies – actually my cookie sales experience is what got me kicked out of Girl Scouts…
62. Gone whale watching
63. Got flowers for no reason
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
65. Gone sky diving – no, but I want to
66. Visited a Nazi concentration camp
67. Bounced a check
68. Flown in a helicopter – over Mendenhall Glacier in Alaska, while the the ethereal music of “Enya” reverberated into my headphones, courtesy of the pilot. It was a transcendent experience – a day I will never forget!
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy – well, I saved “Sheepie,”one of my kid’s favorite stuffed animals, but only books remain from my childhood…
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial
71. Eaten caviar
72. Pieced a quilt – not yet, but I have a sister-in-law who’s promised to teach me
73. Stood in Times Square – way back in the 60s, before they cleaned it up!
74. Toured the Everglades- sadly, I don’t think touring Florida’s Weeki Wachee Springs counts. But I did go on a Cajun Swamp Tour in New Orleans that was pretty spectacular…
75. Been fired from a job – twice, though the second time was termed “closing your department,” but I wonder…
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
77. Broken a bone – technically I did bruise my tailbone in a skiing accident, but there’s nothing they can do for that. The subsequent ride in the Ski Patrol basket was pure embarrassment, however
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle – so far, only in my dreams
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
80. Published a book – lots of stuff I have written has been published, but my book’s not done yet…
81. Visited the Vatican – the most memorable thing for me, besides the Vatican Guards’ uniforms, was the catacombs…
82. Bought a brand new car- thankfully I’ve enjoyed this pleasure many times
83. Walked in Jerusalem – no but I have a sister-in-law who has…
84. Had my picture in the newspaper
85. Read the entire Bible
86. Visited the White House
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating – no, but I helped my Dad clean ducks he’d shot. That was close enough for me…
88. Had chickenpox – even gave it to my brother, who was just a few weeks old. Sorry, Eric!
89. Saved someone’s life – well I had to give my daughter Syrup of Ipecac once, so I think that counts…
90. Sat on a jury – called twice, but never chosen…
91. Met someone famous – Most notably, “The Guess Who” came to our house and showed my son how to play American Woman on his guitar. Each played it a bit differently. We have pictures
92. Joined a book club – many times
93. Lost a loved one
94. Had a baby – Did that twice – a long time ago
95. Seen the Alamo in person
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
97. Been involved in a law suit – oh yeah. Thankfully I’ve always won, even when I was the defendant
98. Owned a cell phone
99. Been stung by a bee
100. Ridden an elephant – not yet, but I have a friend who arranges this in Africa, so I’ll do it eventually
Back to You: What’s in Store For You Goals-wise, in 2009?
Your answer, you understand, is deeply rooted in your ability to set and achieve goals. The fact is, recession or not, you have the ability to achieve WHATEVER you desire. Perhaps you seek …
- Robust health
- Financial freedom
- Enduring relationships
- Wonderful friendships
- Fulfilling family activities
- True happiness
Whatever your desires, any and all of them are possible once you take the first step by setting goals for achieving these experiences.
Of course, to do it right, you really need to have a variety of goals:
- Short term goals (goals you can easily accomplish in one day to one year)
- Mid-range goals (goals which you can attain in one to three years)
- Long term goals (goals that will take you three to five years to realize)
- Finally, of course, you still want to maintain your “bucket list” goals (those big picture things you want to experience before you die)
When you set goals strategically, you start by planning the long term goals. You then carefully break down each goal into specific steps to develop your mid-range goals.
Then, for each mid-range goal, you ask yourself what you need to do to accomplish each one.
Use those answers to create your short term goal list. These become your “To-Do List” each day for the next year.
Your goals list should not be about only those things you want personally …
Of course, there’s no need to limit your goal-setting to things you’d like to accomplish for yourself…You can also work out what sort of legacy you’d like to leave:
- For the world
- For your business
- For your family
You can create goals related to anything that you can affect as well as anything that you want to participate in. It’s all fair game.
For example, do you long for world peace? Don’t let the dream die because you think it’s more than you can accomplish. Instead:
- Put world peace on your long term goals list
- Then figure out a way to make a peaceful difference in the world via your mid-range goals
- Start building toward peace immediately via your short term goals – for example, you could start by participating in other people’s peace-generating activities
- Join a peace march
- Make a financial donation
- Work with 10 Million Clicks for Peace
Regardless of what decide to you do, remember this: Albert Schweitzer once said, “Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.”
In short, if you want to achieve all of your goals in 2009 and beyond, your first step is to make sure that you include everything that will make you happy on your goals list AND make sure that you are focused on doing something you love!
That’s why it is so important to follow your passion in building a business. Unless you have a true passion for what you are doing, you will find it all but impossible to succeed.
When you follow your passion, you’ll not only experience success — but happiness will be its twin.
What Sort of Success Will You Create in 2009 and Beyond?
The answer depends on the goals you set for yourself and the action you take to achieve them.
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